Q: My 84-year-old dad is worried about occasional morning incontinence. I asked, "Could it be as simple as cutting back on coffee?" He joked that "it was the beginning of the end for me," but I don't think so. Instead of going out for coffee with his friends, he's staying home more often and drinking coffee all morning. I think his bigger problems are companionship. I'm not sure how that can be remedied. Any suggestions?